I must say that this is one of my favorite devotionals I have ever done. My wife and I are doing this now for the second time in our marriage: once when we first got married and, now, eight years later. AND it still rings true and is very challenging to my faith. I would suggest two things when reading it: 1) Don't do it LATE at night right before bed because, as the husband, it is hard to stay awake sometimes. So, men, read it with your wife standing or sitting upright. 2) Use the short prayer at the end of each as a guide or starter prayer. It will really open up your hearts together. Overall, this is an amazing devotional that hits almost every facet of marriage in a real, biblical, and practical way.