Chapter One
1. Was there a part of Sue’s story that particularly spoke to you? That you could identify with? That surprised you?
2. Have you found that most people don’t know what to say, and often say the “wrong” thing to others going through difficult times such as divorce and abandonment? If you personally have experienced divorce or abandonment, what did you want to hear from people at that time?
3. Sue spoke of the abandoning spouse giving up God first, then their spouse, and then their children. What are your thoughts on this process? Do you agree or disagree?
Chapter Two
1. Where do you find your comfort when dealing with life’s trials?
2. For those who have been divorced or separated, in what ways do you struggle, like Sue, to figure out how to relate to your spouse/ex-spouse—this familiar stranger?
3. Do you find it difficult to trust God for the outcome of your marriage/divorce? What particular things do you find most difficult to give over to God?
Chapter Three
1. Have you ever been in the position where you received contradictory advice from friends? How did you deal with this?
2. How do you define yourself? Do you find it difficult not to define yourself by your spouse’s actions/definition? Do you understand who you are in Christ?
3. What parts or aspects of your life give you strength and hope? (For example, your children, friends, Scripture, exercise, reading, music, your faith, etc.)
Chapter Four
1. What do you think is the most difficult aspect of single parenting?
2. What constitutes a successful day for you?
3. What is your prayer life like? Is it what you want it to be? What steps can you take to make prayer a priority?
Chapter Five
1. Do you struggle with anger? Bitterness?
2. Assuming that all our answers to the question above will be yes, what is the best way you have found to deal with anger and bitterness?
3. Are you willing to let God deal with your anger and with your spouse? If yes, what do you think that looks like practically?
4. Do you have any Scripture verses that you have found that speak to your heart and mind about overcoming anger or bitterness? Please share.