Chapter 10—Gratitude Rhymes with Attitude
- Read James 1:17 on page 107. List ten things that you are grateful for right now, and thank God that He has gifted you with those blessings.
- Dave says that having a spirit of gratitude is an attitude that can be developed. Do you agree or disagree that this is possible? What do you consider your biggest obstacles in achieving it?
- On page 110, Dave names some of the benefits of gratitude:
A grateful heart is the foundational attitude of the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. It is that important. Gratitude keeps me from envy, if I can mentally pivot to the many things I am blessed to enjoy. Gratitude keeps me from anger, if I can be grateful for how patient God is with my myriad of shortcomings. Gratitude keeps me from frustration, when it reminds me how much worse things could be.
What are some other benefits of gratitude you can think of?
- Read and take to heart Philippians 2:14-15 on page 111. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you things to be grateful for in good or bad moments.
Chapter 11—Worrying Steals the Moment
- Read Matthew 6:25-27, 31-34 on pages 119–20. What is Jesus saying to us about worrying?
- Research shows that 85 percent of the things a person worries about never happen. Why do you think people tend to worry about so many things?
- Do you agree with Dave’s thoughts about worry as expressed on pages 120–21?
“Living in fear of the future cheats you out of today. A precious moment tugs on your heart like a child at your sleeve. Too often you stub your toe on that sacred moment while concerning yourself with something that won’t happen or will happen in a way that your worry cannot change. That is exactly where the Enemy wants to keep you and me as children of God, with our eyes on worry and not on God.”
- Read Matthew 11:28-30 on the bottom of page 121. What should be your first response when you begin to worry?